{"id":9,"date":"2010-09-30T10:34:47","date_gmt":"2010-09-30T08:34:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/?p=9"},"modified":"2010-09-30T13:11:39","modified_gmt":"2010-09-30T11:11:39","slug":"nevedet-je-normalni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/2010\/09\/30\/nevedet-je-normalni\/","title":{"rendered":"Nev\u011bd\u011bt je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"
Prvn\u00ed m\u011bs\u00edc <\/span>\u0161koly <\/span>je <\/span>t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 <\/span>za <\/span>n\u00e1mi <\/span>a <\/span>s <\/span>jeho <\/span>koncem <\/span>p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed <\/span>prvn\u00ed <\/span>zn\u00e1mky <\/span>\u00fanavy <\/span>a <\/span>leckte\u0159\u00ed <\/span>u\u010ditel\u00e9 <\/span>u\u017e <\/span>pokukuj\u00ed <\/span>po <\/span>kalend\u00e1\u0159i, <\/span>kdy <\/span>budou <\/span>nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed <\/span>pr\u00e1zdniny. <\/span>V <\/span>kabinetech <\/span>si <\/span>b\u011bhem <\/span>p\u011btiminutov\u00fdch <\/span>p\u0159est\u00e1vek <\/span>sotva <\/span>stihnout \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee <\/span>se <\/span>to <\/span>v\u0161echno, <\/span>co <\/span>se <\/span>po <\/span>nich <\/span>chce, <\/span>u\u017e <\/span>ned\u00e1 <\/span>vydr\u017eet. <\/span><\/div>\n

V <\/span>takov\u00e9m <\/span>okam\u017eiku <\/span>je <\/span>u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9 <\/span>ud\u011blat <\/span>revizi <\/span>toho, <\/span>co <\/span>je <\/span>opravdu <\/span>t\u0159eba <\/span>ud\u011blat. <\/span>U\u017e <\/span>jste <\/span>se <\/span>n\u011bkdy <\/span>zamysleli, <\/span>z \u010deho <\/span>takov\u00e1 <\/span>\u00fanava <\/span>pramen\u00ed? <\/span>Ano, <\/span>ur\u010dit\u011b <\/span>z <\/span>nesmysln\u00e9 <\/span>byrokracie <\/span>a <\/span>z <\/span>v\u00edc <\/span>ne\u017e \u010dast\u00fdch <\/span>organiza\u010dn\u00edch <\/span>porad, <\/span>ale <\/span>tak\u00e9 <\/span>z <\/span>tlaku, <\/span>kter\u00e9mu <\/span>u\u010ditel\u00e9 \u010del\u00ed <\/span>ve <\/span>t\u0159\u00edd\u00e1ch <\/span>p\u0159ed <\/span>studenty <\/span>a <\/span>kter\u00fd <\/span>vypl\u00fdv\u00e1 <\/span>ze <\/span>spole\u010densk\u00e9 <\/span>role <\/span>t\u00e9to <\/span>profese. <\/span><\/p>\n

Zn\u00e1te <\/span>ten <\/span>pocit, <\/span>kdy <\/span>stoj\u00edte <\/span>ve <\/span>t\u0159\u00edd\u011b <\/span>p\u0159ed <\/span>studenty, <\/span>kte\u0159\u00ed <\/span>v\u00e1m <\/span>pr\u00e1v\u011b <\/span>polo\u017eili <\/span>z\u00e1ludnou <\/span>ot\u00e1zku, <\/span>na <\/span>kterou <\/span>nezn\u00e1te <\/span>odpov\u011b\u010f. <\/span>Ten <\/span>vnit\u0159n\u00ed <\/span>monolog, <\/span>kter\u00fd <\/span>se <\/span>v <\/span>tom <\/span>okam\u017eiku <\/span>za\u010dne <\/span>honit <\/span>va\u0161\u00ed <\/span>hlavou – <\/span>Co <\/span>s <\/span>t\u00edm? <\/span>Kdy\u017e \u0159eknu, \u017ee <\/span>nev\u00edm, <\/span>tak <\/span>se <\/span>mi <\/span>vysm\u011bj\u00ed <\/span>a <\/span>ztrat\u00edm <\/span>i <\/span>ten <\/span>zbytek <\/span>autority, <\/span>kter\u00fd <\/span>na <\/span>n\u011b <\/span>plat\u00ed. <\/span>Asi <\/span>pou\u017eiji <\/span>obl\u00edbenou <\/span>taktiku <\/span>a <\/span>zad\u00e1m <\/span>nalezen\u00ed <\/span>odpov\u011bdi <\/span>jako <\/span>dom\u00e1c\u00ed <\/span>\u00fakol\u2026 – <\/span>I <\/span>p\u0159esto, \u017ee <\/span>se <\/span>poda\u0159\u00ed <\/span>za\u017eehnat <\/span>potenci\u00e1ln\u00ed <\/span>ostudu, <\/span>z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 <\/span>pocit <\/span>selh\u00e1n\u00ed \u010di <\/span>nespokojenosti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Zkusme <\/span>se <\/span>ale <\/span>na <\/span>celou <\/span>situaci <\/span>pod\u00edvat <\/span>z <\/span>jin\u00e9ho <\/span>\u00fahlu <\/span>pohledu. <\/span>Co <\/span>kdy\u017e <\/span>ten <\/span>tlak <\/span>na <\/span>sebe <\/span>vyv\u00edj\u00edme <\/span>sami <\/span>t\u00edm, \u017ee <\/span>se <\/span>sna\u017e\u00edme <\/span>dost\u00e1t <\/span>spole\u010densk\u00e9 <\/span>p\u0159edstav\u011b, \u017ee <\/span>u\u010ditel <\/span>je <\/span>ten, <\/span>kter\u00fd <\/span>v\u00ed? <\/span>Co <\/span>kdy\u017e <\/span>v <\/span>takov\u00e9m <\/span>p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b <\/span>sta\u010d\u00ed <\/span>zm\u011bnit <\/span>postoj <\/span>a <\/span>p\u0159iznat, \u017ee <\/span>nev\u00edm? <\/span>Takov\u00e1 <\/span>odpov\u011b\u010f <\/span>m\u016f\u017ee <\/span>fungovat <\/span>jako <\/span>z\u00e1chrana <\/span>p\u0159ed <\/span>sledem <\/span>stresov\u00fdch <\/span>situac\u00ed <\/span>a <\/span>z\u00e1rove\u0148 <\/span>otev\u00edr\u00e1 <\/span>prostor <\/span>pro <\/span>hled\u00e1n\u00ed <\/span>a <\/span>mapov\u00e1n\u00ed <\/span>nezn\u00e1m\u00fdch <\/span>souvislost\u00ed. <\/span>Studenti <\/span>ji <\/span>tak\u00e9 <\/span>ocen\u00ed, <\/span>proto\u017ee <\/span>kone\u010dn\u011b <\/span>budou <\/span>m\u00edt <\/span>p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost <\/span>vid\u011bt <\/span>na <\/span>p\u0159\u00edkladu <\/span>sv\u00e9ho <\/span>u\u010ditele, <\/span>co <\/span>je <\/span>t\u0159eba <\/span>d\u011blat, <\/span>kdy\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk <\/span>nev\u00ed <\/span>a <\/span>hled\u00e1 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. <\/span>Zm\u011bna <\/span>postoje <\/span>z <\/span>u\u010ditele <\/span>v\u011bdouc\u00edho <\/span>na <\/span>u\u010ditele <\/span>hledaj\u00edc\u00edho <\/span>m\u016f\u017ee <\/span>zm\u011bnit <\/span>atmosf\u00e9ru <\/span>ve <\/span>t\u0159\u00edd\u011b <\/span>a <\/span>p\u0159isp\u011bt <\/span>k <\/span>oboustrann\u00e9mu <\/span>pocitu <\/span>bezpe\u010d\u00ed.\u00a0<\/span>V <\/span>neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b <\/span>se <\/span>v\u0161em <\/span>ulev\u00ed <\/span>a <\/span>proces <\/span>u\u010den\u00ed, <\/span>kter\u00fd <\/span>m\u00e1 <\/span>smysl <\/span>pouze <\/span>tehdy, <\/span>kdy\u017e <\/span>n\u011bco <\/span>nev\u00edm <\/span>a <\/span>v\u011bd\u011bt <\/span>chci, <\/span>bude <\/span>moct <\/span>za\u010d\u00edt <\/span>tam, <\/span>kde <\/span>m\u00e1. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Prvn\u00ed m\u011bs\u00edc \u0161koly je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 za n\u00e1mi a s jeho koncem p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed prvn\u00ed zn\u00e1mky \u00fanavy a leckte\u0159\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9 u\u017e pokukuj\u00ed po kalend\u00e1\u0159i, kdy budou nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed pr\u00e1zdniny. V kabinetech si b\u011bhem p\u011btiminutov\u00fdch p\u0159est\u00e1vek sotva stihnout \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee se to v\u0161echno, co se po nich chce, u\u017e ned\u00e1 vydr\u017eet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1827,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1827"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9\/revisions\/23"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/vzdelavani\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}