{"id":899,"date":"2010-03-07T08:44:32","date_gmt":"2010-03-07T07:44:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/?p=899"},"modified":"2010-03-07T08:45:05","modified_gmt":"2010-03-07T07:45:05","slug":"je-dulezita-odbornost-nebo-emoce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/prispevky\/je-dulezita-odbornost-nebo-emoce.html","title":{"rendered":"JE D\u016eLE\u017dIT\u00c1 ODBORNOST NEBO EMPATIE?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>M\u011bl jsem spolu\u017e\u00e1ka, kter\u00fd byl\u00a0 geni\u00e1ln\u00ed matematik. Rozhodl se pro \u017eivotn\u00ed dr\u00e1hu u\u010ditele. Jako spolu\u017e\u00e1ci jsme prorokovali: To bude jednou skv\u011bl\u00fd u\u010ditel! Nebyl. Po n\u011bkolikalet\u00e9m putov\u00e1n\u00ed od \u0161koly ke \u0161kole musel zm\u011bnit\u00a0profesn\u00ed orientaci. Na druhou stranu jin\u00e1 spolu\u017ea\u010dka jen s obt\u00ed\u017eemi proch\u00e1zela od zkou\u0161ky ke zkou\u0161ce, ale po absolvov\u00e1n\u00ed studia a n\u00e1stupu do praxe se z n\u00ed stala schopn\u00e1 a \u017e\u00e1ky obl\u00edben\u00e1 u\u010ditelka. Co vlastn\u011b rozhoduje o \u00fasp\u011bchu v na\u0161\u00ed kantorsk\u00e9 profesi? Uveden\u00e9 dva kontrastn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edklady ukazuj\u00ed, \u017ee IQ to asi nebude.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Potkal jsem na sv\u00e9m kantorsk\u00e9m putov\u00e1n\u00ed hodn\u011b chytr\u00fdch a nadan\u00fdch koleg\u016f, ale jejich pr\u00e1ce se \u017e\u00e1ky ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b byla jen pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00e1, dokonce \u010dasto i zcela ne\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e1. To mn\u011b vedlo postupn\u011b k pozn\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017ee k \u00fasp\u011bchu v na\u0161\u00ed profesi je vedle v\u011bdomost\u00ed pot\u0159eba velk\u00e1 d\u00e1vka schopnost\u00ed zvl\u00e1dat svoje emoce a um\u011bt s nimi rozumn\u011b nakl\u00e1dat. Perfektn\u011b n\u00e1m to ukazuj\u00ed herci. Na n\u011bkolik hodin, v pr\u016fb\u011bhu p\u0159edstaven\u00ed, se dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159evt\u011blit v docela jin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka. A u t\u011bch nejlep\u0161\u00edch to p\u016fsob\u00ed tak v\u011brohodn\u011b, \u017ee jim to zcela v\u011b\u0159\u00edme.\u00a0 Kdy\u017e pozoruji na\u0161i politickou sc\u00e9nu m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee i politici ve sv\u00e9 v\u011bt\u0161in\u011b toto um\u011bn\u00ed znaj\u00ed a ovl\u00e1daj\u00ed. To jsem si uv\u011bdomil v okam\u017eiku, kdy\u017e jsem se setkal z o\u010d\u00ed do o\u010d\u00ed s politikem, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 v m\u00e9di\u00edch pov\u011bst jako nesnesiteln\u00fd a konfliktn\u00ed osobnost. P\u0159i osobn\u00edm setk\u00e1n\u00ed jsem najednou zjistil, \u017ee v p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9m kontaktu je to docela p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd a \u010diteln\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk a jeho medi\u00e1ln\u00ed tv\u00e1\u0159 je pouh\u00e1 maska, kterou si pro ve\u0159ejnost na p\u00e1r hodin p\u016fj\u010duje, proto\u017ee mu to v\u00a0jeho politick\u00e9 roli p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed o\u010dek\u00e1van\u00e9 &#8222;body&#8220;.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Zvl\u00e1dat vlastn\u00ed emoce a c\u00edlev\u011bdom\u011b je pou\u017e\u00edvat k dosa\u017een\u00ed c\u00edle by m\u011bl um\u011bt ka\u017ed\u00fd u\u010ditel. M\u011bla by to b\u00fdt jedna z norem, kter\u00e1 by m\u011bla slou\u017eit k v\u00fdb\u011bru student\u016f pro u\u010ditelsk\u00e9 povol\u00e1n\u00ed. M\u00edsto toho uchaze\u010de v\u00a0p\u0159ij\u00edmac\u00edm \u0159\u00edzen\u00ed zkou\u0161\u00edme vzore\u010dky, nabiflovan\u00e9 v\u011bdomosti, v\u0161eobecn\u00fd rozhled. To v\u0161e jim ale bude k ni\u010demu, kdy\u017e sv\u00fdmi schopnostmi nedok\u00e1\u017ee oslovit sv\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1ky, zaujmout sv\u00e9 studenty a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit je o smyslu a u\u017eite\u010dnosti toho, co je maj\u00ed nau\u010dit. Je to druh\u00e1 str\u00e1nka u\u010ditelova p\u016fsoben\u00ed. Jak oslovit, ovlivnit a p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed. \u00a0Lidi \u00a0se kter\u00fdmi jedn\u00e1me a na kter\u00e9 ve sv\u00e9 kantorsk\u00e9 roli p\u016fsob\u00edme.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Pamatuji u\u010ditelku, kterou si \u0159editel volal na pomoc, kdy\u017e se do \u0161koly dostavila rozl\u00edcen\u00e1 maminka a vyhro\u017eovala \u0161kole tou nejtvrd\u0161\u00ed pomstou za p\u0159\u00edko\u0159\u00ed, kter\u00e9\u00a0 se stalo ve \u0161kole jej\u00ed dce\u0159i. Uveden\u00e1 u\u010ditelka ji b\u011bhem n\u011bkolika minut zklidnila a matka po chv\u00edli odch\u00e1zela ze \u0161koly s ot\u00e1zkou, co \u017ee to\u00a0 a pro\u010d\u00a0 cht\u011bla \u0159editele i s cel\u00fdm jeho u\u010ditelsk\u00fdm sborem poslat do pekla!? Tato mil\u00e1 kolegyn\u011b se um\u011bla rychle naladit na vlnu sv\u00e9 odp\u016frkyn\u011b a dok\u00e1zala bez v\u00e1h\u00e1n\u00ed naj\u00edt cestu, jak ji p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit, \u017ee jej\u00ed probl\u00e9m vlastn\u011b \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd probl\u00e9m nen\u00ed a v\u0161echno co se kolem jej\u00ed dcery d\u011bje se d\u00e1 \u0159e\u0161it v klidu a rozumn\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Tuto schopnost samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nem\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, tak jako ka\u017ed\u00fd nem\u00e1 IQ nad 140. V\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed se s t\u011bmito schopnostmi rod\u00ed, mnoz\u00ed se j\u00ed sna\u017e\u00ed po cel\u00fd \u017eivot nau\u010dit. A nemysl\u00edm te\u010f jenom na u\u010ditele, ale stejnou m\u00edru empati\u00ed bych r\u00e1d nach\u00e1zel u sv\u00e9ho o\u0161et\u0159uj\u00edc\u00edho l\u00e9ka\u0159e, prodava\u010dky ve sv\u00e9m obchod\u011b, knihovnice v\u00a0na\u0161\u00ed knihovn\u011b. Ale hlavn\u011b u sv\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00fdch a p\u0159\u00e1tel, kde takov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup a pomoc o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1m nejv\u00edce.\u00a0 Mnoh\u00e9 se d\u00e1 v \u017eivot\u011b dohnat, n\u011bco i nau\u010dit.\u00a0 K dokonalosti dojde jen m\u00e1lokdo z n\u00e1s. Ale v ka\u017ed\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b bychom jako u\u010ditel\u00e9 o t\u00e9to str\u00e1nce sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed osobnosti m\u011bli alespo\u0148 n\u011bco v\u011bd\u011bt. A nedok\u00e1\u017eeme-li\u00a0 zvl\u00e1dnout sami sebe, pomozme alespo\u0148 t\u011bm, kte\u0159\u00ed takov\u00e9 schopnosti maj\u00ed, nebo je hledaj\u00ed. A jsou mnoz\u00ed i mezi na\u0161imi \u017e\u00e1ky a studenty.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Je\u0161t\u011b tu chyb\u00ed odpov\u011b\u010f na ot\u00e1zku v\u00a0nadpisu. Inteligence nebo emoce jsou kl\u00ed\u010dem ke komunikaci mezi lidmi. Domn\u00edv\u00e1m se, \u017ee ob\u011b formy nelze odd\u011blit n\u011bjakou tlustou \u010darou. Geni\u00e1ln\u00ed a vele\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00ed jsou lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed s\u00a0vrozenou moudrost\u00ed (to je lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e to naz\u00fdvat chytrost\u00ed) a citem pro sv\u00e9 okol\u00ed rozd\u00e1vaj\u00ed kolem sebe pozitivn\u00ed vlny \u017eivotn\u00ed energie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u011bl jsem spolu\u017e\u00e1ka, kter\u00fd byl\u00a0 geni\u00e1ln\u00ed matematik. Rozhodl se pro \u017eivotn\u00ed dr\u00e1hu u\u010ditele. Jako spolu\u017e\u00e1ci jsme prorokovali: To bude jednou skv\u011bl\u00fd u\u010ditel! Nebyl. Po n\u011bkolikalet\u00e9m putov\u00e1n\u00ed od \u0161koly ke \u0161kole musel zm\u011bnit\u00a0profesn\u00ed orientaci. Na druhou stranu jin\u00e1 spolu\u017ea\u010dka jen s obt\u00ed\u017eemi proch\u00e1zela od zkou\u0161ky ke zkou\u0161ce, ale po absolvov\u00e1n\u00ed studia a n\u00e1stupu do praxe se [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[291,301,317],"tags":[589,593,587,591],"class_list":["post-899","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-autorska","category-nedelnicek","category-ranicek","tag-emocni-inteligence","tag-empatie","tag-inteligence","tag-iq"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/899","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=899"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/899\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":903,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/899\/revisions\/903"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}