{"id":465,"date":"2009-11-05T20:24:11","date_gmt":"2009-11-05T18:24:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/?p=465"},"modified":"2009-11-11T19:57:59","modified_gmt":"2009-11-11T17:57:59","slug":"kde-hledat-ucitelovy-spojence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/prispevky\/kde-hledat-ucitelovy-spojence.html","title":{"rendered":"KDE M\u016e\u017dE U\u010cITEL HLEDAT SV\u00c9 SPOJENCE ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><span>Tak\u00e9 jste p\u0159i v\u00fdkonu u\u010ditelsk\u00e9 profese za\u017eili okam\u017eik, kdy jste z\u016fstali \u00a0najednou docela sami? \u017d\u00e1ci v\u00e1s odm\u00edtaj\u00ed, rodi\u010de ignoruj\u00ed, kolegov\u00e9 nad v\u00e1mi jen krout\u00ed hlavou a \u0159editel v\u00e1s varuje p\u0159ed pr\u016f\u0161vihem? Lze v takov\u00e9 pozici hledat n\u011bjak\u00e9 spojence? Lze obt\u00ed\u017enou situaci v\u016fbec \u0159e\u0161it a nen\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed hned ze \u0161koly odej\u00edt jinam?<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><\/em><span><!--more--><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>Popsanou situaci jsem samoz\u0159ejm\u011b hodn\u011b zdramatizoval. \u00a0Ale p\u0159iznejme si, \u017ee se \u010das od \u010dasu p\u0159i sv\u00e9m povol\u00e1n\u00ed dostane do konfliktu se sv\u00fdm okol\u00edm ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s. Jak v\u00a0takov\u00e9 situaci postupovat? Bojovat anebo zatroubit k \u00fastupu a slo\u017eit zbran\u011b, nebo dokonce z\u00a0boje ut\u00e9ci?<\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Domn\u00edv\u00e1m se, \u017ee nejd\u0159\u00edve je t\u0159eba v takov\u00e9 situaci s\u00e1m sob\u011b polo\u017eit ot\u00e1zku: Jak cel\u00fd konflikt vznikl a co bylo jeho p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou? A hlavn\u011b jak\u00fd d\u00edl viny na jej\u00edm vzniku m\u00e1m j\u00e1 osobn\u011b? Negativn\u00ed reakce jsou t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u017edy reakc\u00ed na zp\u016fsob chov\u00e1n\u00ed a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u00e9 okol\u00ed nechce akceptovat. Vina p\u0159itom nemus\u00ed nutn\u011b b\u00fdt jen na m\u00e9 stran\u011b. N\u011bkdy jde o pouh\u00e9 nepochopen\u00ed m\u00fdch snah, nechu\u0165 zab\u00fdvat se kup\u00edc\u00edmi se probl\u00e9my. A tak p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed reakce, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1\u00a0nositele pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed\u00a0na pracovi\u0161ti umravnit. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Co se t\u00fdk\u00e1 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed takov\u00e9 krizov\u00e9 situace je ka\u017ed\u00e1 rada drah\u00e1. Vyplat\u00ed se nereagovat okam\u017eit\u011b, pod vlivem siln\u00fdch emoc\u00ed. Lep\u0161\u00ed je v klidu situaci posoudit, rozebrat ji z r\u016fzn\u00fdch pozic a pohovo\u0159it si o v\u011bci s\u00a0lidmi \u00a0kter\u00fdm d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujete. Teprve pak, po zklidn\u011bn\u00ed a s odstupem p\u0159istoupit k\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9mu rozhodnut\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Ani to by nem\u011blo b\u00fdt nikdy b\u00fdt pojato jako rivalsk\u00fd souboj o to kdo m\u00e1 pravdu a kdo v\u00a0n\u011bm nutn\u011b \u00a0mus\u00ed\u00a0\u00a0vyhr\u00e1t. Takov\u00fd ostr\u00fd konflikt nem\u00e1 nikdy v\u00edt\u011bze, ale jenom pora\u017een\u00e9. A\u0165 je konflikt veden se \u017e\u00e1ky, rodi\u010di, kolegy nebo \u0159editelem, sna\u017eme se vn\u00edmat a objektivn\u011b posoudit n\u00e1zory a p\u0159ipom\u00ednky sv\u00fdch oponent\u016f. Neobhajujme za ka\u017edou cenu svoji pravdu, ale pokusme se akceptovat tu \u010d\u00e1st jejich kritiky, kterou jsem schopen p\u0159i jmout. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b je-li vedena slu\u0161n\u011b a s c\u00edlem pomoci n\u00e1m a t\u00edm i na\u0161im \u017e\u00e1k\u016fm.<\/p>\n<p>Kdo je na\u0161\u00edm spojencem v\u00a0takto vyhrocen\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch? Je to ka\u017ed\u00fd kdo s n\u00e1mi vede dialog a m\u00e1 up\u0159\u00edmnou snahu vy\u0159e\u0161it probl\u00e9m.\u00a0 U \u0159editele se automaticky p\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1.\u00a0 M\u011bl by se n\u00e1s um\u011bl zastat, v\u017edy kdy\u017e jsme nespravedliv\u011b napad\u00e1n\u00ed, kdekoliv se n\u011bkdo sna\u017e\u00ed\u00a0 podrazit na\u0161i autoritu. V\u017edy\u0165 t\u00edm por\u00e1\u017e\u00ed i autoritu ostatn\u00edch pracovn\u00edk\u016f \u0161koly, tedy i autoritu \u0159editele. Od koleg\u016f bych v\u00a0takov\u00e9 situaci o\u010dek\u00e1val otev\u0159enost a n\u011bjakou dobrou radu, jak konflikt \u0159e\u0161it. I rodi\u010de\u00a0 pomohou, kdy\u017e p\u0159ijmou nab\u00eddnutou ruku ke spolupr\u00e1ci, a hledaj\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed i v z\u00e1jmu sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. A \u017e\u00e1ky bych ocenil za up\u0159\u00edmnost a odvahu vyj\u00e1d\u0159it nahlas slu\u0161n\u011b a zcela objektivn\u011b sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed n\u00e1zor. Spojence lze hledat ve v\u0161ech osob\u00e1ch zainteresovan\u00fdch na konfliktu. Ale to z\u00e1sadn\u00ed a kone\u010dn\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed je jen a jen u mne. Jak kritiku p\u0159\u00edjmu a jak\u00e9 z n\u00ed vyvod\u00edm d\u016fsledky a z\u00e1v\u011bry s\u00e1m pro sebe. A\u017e pak, kdy\u017e nevid\u00edm jinou mo\u017enost, p\u0159istoup\u00edm ke krajn\u00edmu \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, kter\u00fdm je zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fd odchod ze \u0161koly na jin\u00e9 pracovi\u0161t\u011b.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tak\u00e9 jste p\u0159i v\u00fdkonu u\u010ditelsk\u00e9 profese za\u017eili okam\u017eik, kdy jste z\u016fstali \u00a0najednou docela sami? \u017d\u00e1ci v\u00e1s odm\u00edtaj\u00ed, rodi\u010de ignoruj\u00ed, kolegov\u00e9 nad v\u00e1mi jen krout\u00ed hlavou a \u0159editel v\u00e1s varuje p\u0159ed pr\u016f\u0161vihem? Lze v takov\u00e9 pozici hledat n\u011bjak\u00e9 spojence? Lze obt\u00ed\u017enou situaci v\u016fbec \u0159e\u0161it a nen\u00ed lep\u0161\u00ed hned ze \u0161koly odej\u00edt jinam?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[299,317,293],"tags":[261],"class_list":["post-465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ctvrtnicek","category-ranicek","category-zivotni","tag-role-ucitele"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/465","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=465"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/465\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":601,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/465\/revisions\/601"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}