{"id":457,"date":"2009-10-20T10:49:32","date_gmt":"2009-10-20T08:49:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/?p=457"},"modified":"2009-10-20T14:23:08","modified_gmt":"2009-10-20T12:23:08","slug":"mel-jsem-rad-darebaky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/prispevky\/mel-jsem-rad-darebaky.html","title":{"rendered":"M\u011aL JSEM R\u00c1D DAREB\u00c1KY"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Trochu podivn\u00fd titulek a obsahuje tvrzen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jen m\u00e1lo u\u010ditel\u016f ve\u0159ejn\u011b p\u0159ipust\u00ed.nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdm tajemstv\u00edm, \u017ee snad ka\u017ed\u00fd u\u010ditel m\u00e1\u00a0mezi \u017e\u00e1ky \u00a0ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b sv\u00e9 obl\u00edbence. O tom by mohli nejl\u00e9pe vypr\u00e1v\u011bt\u00a0samotn\u00ed \u017e\u00e1ci\u00a0 a\u00a0\u00a0 je to t\u00e9ma \u00a0na kter\u00e9 se mezi sebou r\u00e1di a \u010dasto bav\u00ed a v\u00e1\u0161niv\u011b ho rozeb\u00edraj\u00ed.\u00a0 Samotn\u00fd u\u010ditel v\u0161ak takov\u00e9 n\u00e1zory\u00a0nerad p\u0159ipou\u0161t\u00ed, proto\u017ee si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee to nen\u00ed jeho probl\u00e9m.\u00a0 B\u00fdt v ka\u017ed\u00e9 situaci ve \u0161kole spravedliv\u00fd a bez p\u0159edsudk\u016f ke sv\u00fdm \u017e\u00e1k\u016fm, to je p\u0159ece \u00a0zcela samoz\u0159ejm\u00e9 a vy\u017eaduje to jeho u\u010ditelsk\u00e1 role. Skute\u010dnost je\u00a0ale docela jin\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Jak a kdy\u00a0vznik\u00e1 t\u0159\u00edd\u011bn\u00ed \u017e\u00e1k\u016f na\u00a0\u00a0 &#8222;zlobiv\u00e9&#8220;\u00a0 a \u00a0&#8222;hodn\u00e9&#8220;?\u00a0Mechanizmus jeto \u00a0zcela p\u0159irozen\u00fd a\u00a0vpravd\u011b lidsk\u00fd.\u00a0\u00a0Malou\u00a0omluvou pro u\u010ditele je skute\u010dnost, \u017ee se tak d\u011bje \u010dasto neuv\u011bdom\u011ble, bez z\u00e1m\u011bru a snahy u\u010ditele takov\u00e9 d\u011blen\u00ed v\u016fbec se sv\u00fdmi \u017e\u00e1ky d\u011blat.<\/p>\n<p>Jac\u00ed \u017e\u00e1ci jsou\u00a0 u\u010diteli obl\u00edben\u00ed?\u00a0\u00a0Ur\u010dit\u011b\u00a0 uk\u00e1zn\u011bn\u00ed, nadan\u00ed, sna\u017eiv\u00ed a tolerantn\u00ed, ochotn\u00ed ke spolupr\u00e1ci. Na druh\u00e9m p\u00f3lu jsou\u00a0 neuk\u00e1zn\u011bn\u00ed, neschopn\u00ed, konfliktn\u00ed, bez z\u00e1jmu o u\u010den\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed nepln\u00ed sv\u00e9 povinnosti, zapom\u00ednaj\u00ed \u00fakoly, pom\u016fcky a\u00a0s u\u010ditelem nespolupracuj\u00ed. Mohou to b\u00fdt ale i \u017e\u00e1ci velmi schopn\u00ed, ale takov\u00ed ti &#8222;\u0161\u0165ouralov\u00e9&#8220;, neust\u00e1le sleduj\u00edc\u00ed u\u010ditele\u00a0sv\u00fdm &#8222;kritick\u00fdm okem&#8220; \u00a0a hledaj\u00edc\u00ed jeho chyby a nedostatky.\u00a0A nav\u00edc jsou\u00a0neboj\u00e1cn\u00ed v\u00a0 kritice\u00a0 vyu\u010dovan\u00fdch postup\u016f i obsahu toho \u00a0co u\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Takov\u00e9 zjednodu\u0161en\u00e9 d\u011blen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1k\u016f je snadno vysv\u011btliteln\u00e9. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00fd u\u010ditel nechce m\u00edt ve sv\u00e9 \u0161koln\u00ed pr\u00e1ci ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b n\u011bjak\u00e9 v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pot\u00ed\u017ee. P\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed do vyu\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed a p\u0159ed \u017e\u00e1ky s ur\u010dit\u00fdm pl\u00e1nem, p\u0159edsevzet\u00edm, co s nimi chce dok\u00e1zat, co je m\u00e1 nau\u010dit.\u00a0Je pochopiteln\u00e9, \u017ee p\u0159itom \u00a0sympatizuje s t\u011bmi \u017e\u00e1ky, kte\u0159\u00ed mu jeho p\u0159edstavy\u00a0pom\u00e1haj\u00ed naplnit. Naopak ti \u017e\u00e1ci, kte\u0159\u00ed jeho\u00a0p\u0159ipraven\u00fd pl\u00e1n naru\u0161uj\u00ed, nespolupracuj\u00ed, maj\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 ot\u00e1zky, a t\u00edm chod v\u011bc\u00ed zdr\u017euj\u00ed a komplikuj\u00ed, jsou ti kte\u0159\u00ed jeho d\u00edlo ma\u0159\u00ed a zaslou\u017e\u00ed si proto\u00a0u\u010ditelovu nep\u0159\u00edze\u0148.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u00a0\u017ee ve skute\u010dn\u00e9 kantorsk\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci je tomu trochu jinak. Pokus\u00edm se to uk\u00e1zat na sv\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edkladu.\u00a0P\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1m se \u017ee \u00a0i j\u00e1 jsem m\u011bl r\u00e1d \u017e\u00e1ky chytr\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011bli z\u00e1jem o m\u016fj p\u0159edm\u011bt a nezlobili. Ale na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b mi nevadili ani ti, kte\u0159\u00ed nebyli p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nadan\u00ed, chcete-li &#8222;hloup\u00ed&#8220; .\u00a0To je hodn\u011b pejorativn\u00ed ozna\u010den\u00ed, j\u00e1 jsem t\u00edmto titulem \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9ho sv\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka ve\u0159ejn\u011b nikdy nepojmenoval, proto\u017ee vylo\u017een\u00e9ho hlup\u00e1ka jsem\u00a0 se sna\u017eil mezi sv\u00fdmi \u017e\u00e1ky nevid\u011bt. Pr\u00e1v\u011b na nich jsem mohl p\u0159edv\u00e9st sv\u00e9 u\u010ditelsk\u00e9 um\u011bn\u00ed a nau\u010dit je to co bylo za hranicemi jejich mo\u017enost\u00ed.\u00a0Oni to tak naz\u00fdvali, i kdy\u017e p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou jejich pot\u00ed\u017e\u00ed byla sp\u00ed\u0161 jejich lenost, ne\u017e\u00a0 n\u011bjak\u00e1 neschopnost. Ti prvn\u00ed moji snahu ani moc nepot\u0159ebovali, sta\u010dilo jim m\u00e1lo na sam\u00e9m za\u010d\u00e1tku a ostatn\u00ed pak u\u017e \u00a0zvl\u00e1dli\u00a0 d\u00edky sv\u00e9mu nad\u00e1n\u00ed nebo p\u00edli sami.<\/p>\n<p>Vylo\u017een\u011b mne nevadili ani \u017e\u00e1ci hyperaktivn\u00ed. F\u00e9rov\u00e9 dareb\u00e1ky jsem m\u011bl\u00a0v\u017edycky r\u00e1d a fandil jim. A v\u011bt\u0161inou se s nimi domluvil, kdy maj\u00ed sv\u016fj prostor k \u0161a\u0161kov\u00e1n\u00ed a kdy zase ten prostor a klid pot\u0159ebuji ke sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci jako u\u010ditel j\u00e1. V\u00edtal jsem \u017e\u00e1ky, kte\u0159\u00ed cht\u011bli a um\u011bli se mnou o p\u0159edkl\u00e1dan\u00e9m u\u010divu diskutovat a\u00a0polemizovat. Jen jsem je musel krotit, aby to nebylo na \u00fakor ostatn\u00edch spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016f\u00a0a m\u00e9ho vyu\u010dovac\u00edho \u010dasu. Dokonce jsem je k aktivit\u011b a\u00a0c\u00edlen\u011b povzbuzoval.\u00a0 T\u0159eba\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee jsem n\u011bco schv\u00e1ln\u011b\u00a0vy\u0159kl nep\u0159esn\u011b, nebo i chyb\u011b. A \u010dekal jsem na jejich reakci. Bylo to pro mne znamen\u00ed, \u017ee mne pozorn\u011b poslouchaj\u00ed\u00a0 a p\u0159i hodin\u011b\u00a0 nesp\u00ed.\u00a0 Takov\u00e9 &#8222;hl\u00eddac\u00ed psy&#8220;, nebo l\u00e9pe \u00a0korektory, \u00a0by si m\u011bl dobr\u00fd u\u010ditel mezi \u017e\u00e1ky chr\u00e1nit a nem\u00e1-li je, tak si je s\u00e1m vychov\u00e1vat. To jsou ti kte\u0159\u00ed nejen\u017ee maj\u00ed odvahu ve\u0159ejn\u011b vystoupit s jin\u00fdm n\u00e1zorem, ale um\u00ed ho i \u0159\u00edci\u00a0 nahlas a obhajovat ho. U nich\u00a0je nad\u011bje, \u017ee z nich postupn\u011b vyrostou u\u017eite\u010dn\u00ed a nezlomn\u00ed lid\u00e9, kter\u00e9\u00a0 n\u00e1m v \u017eivot\u011b v r\u016fzn\u00fdch pozic\u00edch ve firm\u00e1ch i spr\u00e1v\u011b v\u011bc\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u00fdch velmi chyb\u00ed. A u\u010ditel m\u00e1 p\u0159eci nejen u\u010dit, ale tak\u00e9 vychov\u00e1vat. A tady je k tomu denn\u011b p\u0159\u00edmo ve \u0161koln\u00ed t\u0159\u00edd\u011b dobr\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0P\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1m, \u017ee \u00a0i j\u00e1 jsem m\u011bl mezi \u017e\u00e1ky\u00a0skupinu, kterou jsem vylo\u017een\u011b nesn\u00e1\u0161el. Byli to r\u016fzn\u00ed \u017ealobn\u00ed\u010dci, dona\u0161e\u010di na kamar\u00e1dy a ostatn\u00ed u\u010ditele. Prost\u011b a jednodu\u0161e &#8222;podraz\u00e1ci!&#8220; Nebylo jich m\u00e1lo a j\u00e1 ve styku s nimi m\u011bl trval\u00fd pocit, \u017ee tak jako dnes\u00a0 pro mne pomlouvaj\u00ed sv\u00e9 bl\u00edzk\u00e9, dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed z\u00edtra stejn\u011b pomlouvat i mne.\u00a0Pr\u00e1v\u011b takov\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1ky jsem nemilosrdn\u011b pot\u00edral. Jejich zaru\u010den\u00e9 zpr\u00e1vy jsem odm\u00edtal a pokud mi je nutily, sna\u017eil jsem se je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit o nespr\u00e1vnosti jejich jedn\u00e1n\u00ed a p\u0159\u00edstupu k lidem. Sice to u nich moc nepom\u00e1halo,\u00a0 ale v\u00edm \u017ee p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b u\u017e za mnou s takov\u00fdmi zv\u011bstmi nep\u0159i\u0161li a hledali poslucha\u010de\u00a0 mezi jin\u00fdmi u\u010diteli. Asi v\u011bd\u011bli, \u017ee s jejich\u00a0p\u016fsoben\u00edm nejen nesouhlas\u00edm, ale \u017ee nemohou ode mne za takovou\u00a0&#8222;slu\u017ebu&#8220; \u010dekat \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 \u00falevy ani pochopen\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0Kdy\u017e sleduji dne\u0161n\u00ed na\u0161i spole\u010dnost ( a nejen politiky,ale po r\u016fzn\u00fdch ve\u0159ejn\u00fdch af\u00e9r\u00e1ch tak\u00e9 bohu\u017eel i u\u010ditele na t\u011bch nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00edch stupn\u00edch \u0161kol), m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b tato skupina lid\u00ed dostala dnes prostor k uplatn\u011bn\u00ed. Tady u\u017e nesta\u010d\u00ed m\u00edt jenom pocit, \u017ee jsme jako u\u010ditel\u00e9 n\u011bco v jejich d\u011btstv\u00ed zanedbali a nechali je rozvinout do ne\u00fanosn\u00e9ho\u00a0po\u010dtu i kvality.\u00a0\u00a0Ur\u010dit\u011b se na tom pod\u00edlela i jejich rodina a hlavn\u011b spole\u010densk\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed,\u00a0kter\u00e9 jim dovolilo pln\u011b se uplatnit a prosadit.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0 Vra\u0165me se rad\u011bji do reality\u00a0sv\u00e9 \u0161koln\u00ed t\u0159\u00eddy. Sledujme bedliv\u011b sv\u00e9 \u017e\u00e1ky a bu\u010fme k nim podle sv\u00e9ho nejlep\u0161\u00edho v\u011bdom\u00ed a sv\u011bdom\u00ed spravedliv\u00ed. Ka\u017ed\u00e9mu dejme tolik pozornosti a z\u00e1jmu, kolik si skute\u010dn\u011b zasluhuj\u00ed a kolik k napln\u011bn\u00ed role \u017e\u00e1ka na\u0161\u00ed\u00a0t\u0159\u00eddy pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. A\u017e se s nimi po l\u00e9tech n\u011bkde setk\u00e1me, mo\u017en\u00e1 n\u00e1m \u0159eknou, jak jsem se jim jevili my a jak\u00a0jsme naopak svoji kantorskou roli zvl\u00e1dali my &#8211;\u00a0 jejich u\u010ditel\u00e9.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trochu podivn\u00fd titulek a obsahuje tvrzen\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jen m\u00e1lo u\u010ditel\u016f ve\u0159ejn\u011b p\u0159ipust\u00ed.nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdm tajemstv\u00edm, \u017ee snad ka\u017ed\u00fd u\u010ditel m\u00e1\u00a0mezi \u017e\u00e1ky \u00a0ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b sv\u00e9 obl\u00edbence. O tom by mohli nejl\u00e9pe vypr\u00e1v\u011bt\u00a0samotn\u00ed \u017e\u00e1ci\u00a0 a\u00a0\u00a0 je to t\u00e9ma \u00a0na kter\u00e9 se mezi sebou r\u00e1di a \u010dasto bav\u00ed a v\u00e1\u0161niv\u011b ho rozeb\u00edraj\u00ed.\u00a0 Samotn\u00fd u\u010ditel v\u0161ak takov\u00e9 n\u00e1zory\u00a0nerad p\u0159ipou\u0161t\u00ed, proto\u017ee [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[291,317,297],"tags":[133,85,131,141,111,135,87],"class_list":["post-457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-autorska","category-ranicek","category-uternicek","tag-dobry-ucitel","tag-hodnoceni-zaku","tag-pedagogicka-praxe","tag-pedagogicky-takt","tag-pripravy-ucitele","tag-sebeduvera","tag-spravedlivy-ucitel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/457","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=457"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/457\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":547,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/457\/revisions\/547"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=457"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=457"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=457"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}