{"id":243,"date":"2009-01-07T07:03:08","date_gmt":"2009-01-07T07:03:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/?p=243"},"modified":"2009-03-22T15:08:01","modified_gmt":"2009-03-22T15:08:01","slug":"zaka-ani-kvetinou-neuhodis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/prispevky\/zaka-ani-kvetinou-neuhodis.html","title":{"rendered":"\u017d\u00c1KA ANI KV\u011aTINOU NEUHOD\u00cd\u0160"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>S chut\u00ed jsem\u00a0shl\u00e9dl na \u010cT 2 \u00a0po\u0159ad o trest\u00e1n\u00ed \u017e\u00e1k\u016f u\u010diteli, vys\u00edlan\u00fd v r\u00e1mci cyklu Ta na\u0161e povaha \u010desk\u00e1. Bylo v n\u011bm\u00a0 mnoho zasv\u011bcen\u00fdch n\u00e1zor\u016f od renomovan\u00fdch odborn\u00edk\u016f\u00a0i zn\u00e1m\u00fdch osobnost\u00ed, ale i u\u010ditel\u016f praktik\u016f. V\u011bt\u0161ina\u00a0rezonovala s m\u00fdmi \u017eivotn\u00edmi zku\u0161enostmi. Po\u0159ad mne\u00a0oslovil a z\u00e1rove\u0148 donutil k zamy\u0161len\u00ed nad t\u00edm,jak\u00e9 jsou mo\u017enosti u\u010ditele p\u0159i umrav\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed\u00a0sv\u011b\u0159en\u00fdch \u017e\u00e1k\u016f. M\u00e1 u\u010ditel\u00a0\u0161anci v tomto nerovn\u00e9m souboji, kdy si ob\u011b strany mysl\u00ed \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b oni mus\u00ed vyhr\u00e1t?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\t<!--more-->Marn\u011b p\u00e1tr\u00e1m v pam\u011bti, zda jsem n\u011bkdy vzt\u00e1hl ruku na n\u011bkter\u00e9ho sv\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka. Zn\u00ed to mo\u017en\u00e1 nev\u011brohodn\u011b, ale opravdu jsem se do situace, kdy bych musel potrestat\u00a0 sv\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka fyzick\u00fdm trestem, za celou pedagogickou dr\u00e1hu\u00a0 nikdy nedostal. Nejen proto, \u017ee takov\u00fd trest neuzn\u00e1v\u00e1m, ale ani jsem ho pou\u017e\u00edt nikdy nepot\u0159eboval.\u00a0Asi proto, \u017ee jsem se sna\u017eil na\u00a0\u017e\u00e1ky\u00a0p\u016fsobil tak, abych k pou\u017eit\u00ed takov\u00e9ho prost\u0159edku nebyl nikdy donucen.\u00a0Vid\u00edm v\u00a0tom\u00a0um\u011bn\u00ed u\u010ditele, kter\u00e9 se ned\u00e1 nikde na\u010d\u00edst, ale je \u010dlov\u011bku od Boha d\u00e1no a je z\u00e1kladn\u00edm p\u0159edpokladem jeho \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9ho profesn\u00edho p\u016fsoben\u00ed.\u00a0V po\u0159adu to n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t\u00a0 z\u0159eteln\u011b zazn\u011blo. P\u0159esto\u00a0v\u011bt\u0161ina z dot\u00e1zan\u00fdch\u00a0p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 fyzick\u00e9 tresty v rodin\u011b\u00a0a pota\u017emo i\u00a0ve \u0161kole nevylu\u010duje. Ani j\u00e1 je striktn\u011b nezavrhuji.\u00a0P\u0159esto\u017ee\u00a0d\u00e1vno plat\u00ed, \u017ee facka nen\u00ed argument, ale p\u0159\u00edjde-li v pravou chv\u00edli, m\u00e1 v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed efekt ne\u017e hodinov\u00e9 mentorov\u00e1n\u00ed. Znal jsem u\u010ditele, kte\u0159\u00ed t\u00edm byli mezi \u017e\u00e1ky vyhl\u00e1\u0161eni a dokonce \u017e\u00e1ky cen\u011bni. Jeden z nich trestal \u017e\u00e1ky d\u0159ev\u011bnou \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed smet\u00e1\u010dku, kter\u00fdm dostal provinilec\u00a0p\u0159es &#8222;prodlou\u017een\u00e1 z\u00e1da&#8220;,\u00a0z\u00e1sadn\u011b bez sv\u011bdk\u016f a v soukrom\u00ed kabinetu. Nikdo z posti\u017een\u00fdch si na jeho exekuce\u00a0nikdy nikam nest\u011b\u017eoval. Naopak, \u0159ada z nich po l\u00e9tech uv\u00e1d\u00ed, \u017ee to byly ty nej\u00fa\u010dinn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 lekce, jak\u00fdch se jim v dob\u011b jejich \u0161koln\u00ed doch\u00e1zky ze strany \u0161koly dostalo. Jak jsem krotil temperament a likvidoval p\u0159estupky sv\u00fdch \u017e\u00e1k\u016f? Vedle ji\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 prevence, mohu potvrdit, \u017ee daleko \u00fa\u010dinn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e fyzick\u00fd trest, je ironie a vtip. T\u00edm jsem se\u00a0sna\u017eil\u00a0napjatou situaci verb\u00e1ln\u011b zvl\u00e1dnout. Jak a kdy takov\u00fd zp\u016fsob pou\u017e\u00edt, na to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b nen\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd recept.\u00a0Vych\u00e1z\u00ed to ze znalosti situace, mentality ka\u017ed\u00e9ho jednotliv\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka i cel\u00e9ho publika\u00a0&#8211; p\u0159ihl\u00ed\u017eej\u00edc\u00ed t\u0159\u00eddy. P\u0159itom jsem v\u011bd\u011bl, \u017ee\u00a0takov\u00fd zp\u016fsob trest\u00e1n\u00ed m\u00e1 i sv\u00e1 rizika. Ned\u00e1 se opakovan\u011b pou\u017e\u00edt na stejn\u00e9ho \u017e\u00e1ka. A p\u0159i nevhodn\u00e9m pou\u017eit\u00ed ho m\u016f\u017ee po\u0161kodit v\u00edc ne\u017e razantn\u00ed facka. Kde je m\u00edra obsahu a s\u00edla dopadu takov\u00e9 ironie, to je zcela skryto v\u0161em teori\u00edm a n\u00e1vod\u016fm a v\u017edy vych\u00e1z\u00ed z\u00a0konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situace. I kv\u011btinou se m\u016f\u017ee\u00a0zranit a dokonce se m\u016f\u017ee\u00a0st\u00e1t\u00a0 za ur\u010dit\u00fdch nep\u0159\u00edzniv\u00fdch podm\u00ednek\u00a0nebezpe\u010dnou zbran\u00ed. Je\u00a0um\u011bn\u00edm u\u010ditele p\u016fsobit na \u017e\u00e1ky tak, aby\u00a0kv\u011btina z\u016fstala kv\u011btinou a nep\u0159estala jim p\u0159\u00edjemn\u011b von\u011bt, i kdy\u017e s n\u00ed u\u010ditel svi\u017en\u011b m\u00e1v\u00e1.\u00a0\u00a0\u0158\u00edk\u00e1 se tomu odborn\u011b v\u0161elijak a\u00a0j\u00e1 tomu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m pedagogick\u00fd takt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S chut\u00ed jsem\u00a0shl\u00e9dl na \u010cT 2 \u00a0po\u0159ad o trest\u00e1n\u00ed \u017e\u00e1k\u016f u\u010diteli, vys\u00edlan\u00fd v r\u00e1mci cyklu Ta na\u0161e povaha \u010desk\u00e1. Bylo v n\u011bm\u00a0 mnoho zasv\u011bcen\u00fdch n\u00e1zor\u016f od renomovan\u00fdch odborn\u00edk\u016f\u00a0i zn\u00e1m\u00fdch osobnost\u00ed, ale i u\u010ditel\u016f praktik\u016f. V\u011bt\u0161ina\u00a0rezonovala s m\u00fdmi \u017eivotn\u00edmi zku\u0161enostmi. Po\u0159ad mne\u00a0oslovil a z\u00e1rove\u0148 donutil k zamy\u0161len\u00ed nad t\u00edm,jak\u00e9 jsou mo\u017enosti u\u010ditele p\u0159i umrav\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed\u00a0sv\u011b\u0159en\u00fdch \u017e\u00e1k\u016f. M\u00e1 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[291,309],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-243","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-autorska","category-strednicek"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=243"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=243"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=243"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=243"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}