{"id":207,"date":"2009-03-25T08:06:50","date_gmt":"2009-03-25T08:06:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/?p=207"},"modified":"2009-03-25T08:09:27","modified_gmt":"2009-03-25T08:09:27","slug":"souperi-nebo-partneri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/prispevky\/souperi-nebo-partneri.html","title":{"rendered":"SOUPE\u0158I NEBO PARTNE\u0158I?"},"content":{"rendered":"<address>M\u00e1m na mysli u\u010ditele a rodi\u010de. St\u00e1le \u010dast\u011bji m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee se uplat\u0148uje to prv\u00e9 ozna\u010den\u00ed. Rodi\u010de a u\u010ditel\u00e9 mezi sebou vedou souboj o v\u00fdchovn\u00fd vliv na d\u00edt\u011b. To nen\u00ed ide\u00e1ln\u00ed stav, proto\u017ee vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed situace, kdy se n\u00e1zory obou rozch\u00e1zej\u00ed a mohou m\u00edt na d\u00edt\u011b p\u016fsobit negativn\u011b. Naopak z\u00e1jem, snaha po dohod\u011b a spolupr\u00e1ci m\u016f\u017ee pomoci k n\u00e1prav\u011b probl\u00e9m\u016f, se kter\u00fdmi se \u017e\u00e1k ve \u0161kole, ale i mimo ni, pot\u00fdk\u00e1.<\/address>\n<p><!--more-->Proto\u017ee tuto \u00favahu p\u00ed\u0161i na m\u00edst\u011b, kter\u00e9 nav\u0161t\u011bvuj\u00ed p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b u\u010ditel\u00e9 (v\u011bt\u0161ina z nich jsou ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 i rodi\u010di sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed), zam\u011b\u0159\u00edm \u00fahel pohledu pr\u00e1v\u011b na u\u010ditele. Prvou ot\u00e1zkou je, zda m\u00e1 b\u00fdt u\u010ditel sv\u00fdm \u017e\u00e1k\u016fm, vedle sv\u00e9 role vzd\u011bl\u00e1vac\u00ed, i vychovatelem. Je to v\u011b\u010dn\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka, kterou \u0159e\u0161\u00ed syst\u00e9my \u0161kolstv\u00ed (a nejen u n\u00e1s) od nepam\u011bti. Zd\u00e1 se, \u017ee role u\u010ditele-vychovatele je p\u0159\u00edmo \u00fam\u011brn\u00e1 v\u011bku vzd\u011bl\u00e1van\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte. V ran\u00e9m v\u011bku (mate\u0159sk\u00e9 \u0161kol, 1. stupe\u0148 Z\u0160) by m\u011bla p\u0159eva\u017eovat. Ale s\u00a0rostouc\u00edm v\u011bkem by se m\u011bla postupn\u011b oslabovat. Domn\u00edv\u00e1m se, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00edc\u00edm <span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0<\/span>zlomem je v\u011bk puberty, kolem 13-16 let, kde vznikaj\u00ed u d\u011bt\u00ed nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9my. Pr\u00e1v\u011b v tomto v\u011bku, kdy se d\u00edt\u011b osamostat\u0148uje a doch\u00e1z\u00ed k nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm konflikt\u016fm se sv\u011btem dosp\u011bl\u00fdch, rodi\u010de \u010dasto svoje pozice usilovn\u011b br\u00e1n\u00ed a sna\u017e\u00ed se vliv u\u010ditele oslabit, n\u011bkdy i znev\u00e1\u017eit a eliminovat. Ale pr\u00e1v\u011b v tomto v\u011bku je pot\u0159eba jednoty v p\u016fsoben\u00ed a spolupr\u00e1ce rodi\u010d\u016f a u\u010ditel\u016f je velmi \u017e\u00e1dan\u00e1 a tak\u00e9 \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0 Kdo tedy m\u00e1 p\u0159ednost ve v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u00edt\u011bte? Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, \u017ee nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed a prvotn\u00ed zodpov\u011bdnost je na rodi\u010d\u00edch. Ale u\u010ditel, jako profesion\u00e1l v oblasti vzd\u011bl\u00e1van\u00ed, by m\u011bl b\u00fdt jeho nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edm r\u00e1dcem a spolupracovn\u00edkem. U\u010ditel m\u00e1 mo\u017enost denn\u00edho srovn\u00e1n\u00ed s ostatn\u00edmi d\u011btmi stejn\u00e9ho v\u011bku a m\u00e1 zku\u0161enosti s veden\u00edm d\u011bt\u00ed tohoto v\u011bku. Proto by jeho doporu\u010den\u00ed a rady m\u011bli rodi\u010de br\u00e1t v\u00e1\u017en\u011b a doporu\u010den\u00ed u\u010ditele alespo\u0148.\u00a0Na druhou stranu, u\u010ditel zn\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1ka v omezen\u00e9m \u010dase, v pro d\u00edt\u011b ne zcela p\u0159irozen\u00e9m \u0161koln\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee jeho pohled na \u017e\u00e1ka deformovat. V \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b by se u\u010ditel nem\u011bl stylizovat do role jedin\u00e9ho a neomyln\u00e9ho soudce v\u00fdchovn\u00fdch metod rodi\u010d\u016f. M\u011bl by vyslechnout jejich argumenty, nechat si vysv\u011btlit zp\u016fsob veden\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte a uznat p\u0159ipom\u00ednky, kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed k pr\u00e1ci \u0161koly a vlivy \u0161koln\u00edho prost\u0159ed\u00ed na jejich d\u00edt\u011b.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>\u00a0V\u00fdsledkem takov\u00e9 oboustrann\u00e9 informace by m\u011bla b\u00fdt dohoda o spole\u010dn\u00e9m postupu p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b \u017e\u00e1ka. To je cesta, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 nad\u011bji na \u00fasp\u011bch a v\u011bt\u0161inou vede k n\u00e1prav\u011b jeho ne\u017e\u00e1douc\u00edho chov\u00e1n\u00ed a nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdch projev\u016f, pro kter\u00e9 vznikaj\u00ed konflikty s u\u010diteli i se spolu\u017e\u00e1ky. Takov\u00e1 dohoda vy\u017eaduje d\u016fslednost a poctiv\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup z obou stran. U\u010ditel by nem\u011bl ve\u0159ejn\u011b kritizovat v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 p\u016fsoben\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f, rodi\u010d by se m\u011b zdr\u017eet koment\u00e1\u0159\u016f o kompetenci u\u010ditele k \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f jejich d\u00edt\u011bte. Vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd respekt a podpora jsou cesta k n\u00e1prav\u011b a \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f d\u00edt\u011bte.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00e1m na mysli u\u010ditele a rodi\u010de. St\u00e1le \u010dast\u011bji m\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee se uplat\u0148uje to prv\u00e9 ozna\u010den\u00ed. Rodi\u010de a u\u010ditel\u00e9 mezi sebou vedou souboj o v\u00fdchovn\u00fd vliv na d\u00edt\u011b. To nen\u00ed ide\u00e1ln\u00ed stav, proto\u017ee vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed situace, kdy se n\u00e1zory obou rozch\u00e1zej\u00ed a mohou m\u00edt na d\u00edt\u011b p\u016fsobit negativn\u011b. Naopak z\u00e1jem, snaha po dohod\u011b a spolupr\u00e1ci m\u016f\u017ee [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[309,293],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-207","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-strednicek","category-zivotni"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=207"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/207\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=207"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=207"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=207"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}