{"id":201,"date":"2009-03-24T07:30:26","date_gmt":"2009-03-24T07:30:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/?p=201"},"modified":"2009-03-24T07:32:04","modified_gmt":"2009-03-24T07:32:04","slug":"skolni-haraseni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/prispevky\/skolni-haraseni.html","title":{"rendered":"\u0160KOLN\u00cd HARA\u0160EN\u00cd"},"content":{"rendered":"<address>Vztah\u016fm se nevyh\u00fdb\u00e1 ani \u0161koln\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed. M\u00e1m na mysli zcela konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed formu vtah\u016f &#8211; vztahy milostn\u00e9. Ne, nebudu tady rozeb\u00edrat rom\u00e1nky mezi studenty, ani mezi studentkami a profesory. Chci se v\u011bnovat vztah\u016fm ve sborovn\u00e1ch.\u00a0Speci\u00e1ln\u011b vztah\u016fm mezi sborovnou a \u0159editelnou. To v\u0161e m\u00e1 velk\u00fd vliv na atmosf\u00e9ru \u0161koly a nav\u00edc ovliv\u0148uje\u00a0pov\u011bst \u0161koly na ve\u0159ejnosti.<\/address>\n<p><!--more-->\u0160koln\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed je definov\u00e1no \u0159adou na\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed, \u0159\u00e1d\u016f a pokyn\u016f. Na druhou stranu je po lidsk\u00e9 str\u00e1nce \u00fapln\u011b stejn\u00e9, jako ka\u017ed\u00e9 jin\u00e9. Sch\u00e1z\u00ed se tu lid\u00e9 se sv\u00fdmi radostmi i bolestmi, touhami a p\u0159edstavami o vlastn\u00ed budoucnosti.\u00a0Chci t\u00edm nazna\u010dit, \u017ee tu nejde\u00a0jen o v\u00fdchovu a vyu\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed student\u016f, ale o prost\u0159ed\u00ed kde vznikaj\u00ed, prom\u011b\u0148uj\u00ed se a zanikaj\u00ed slo\u017eit\u00e9\u00a0vztahy mezi jej\u00edmi pracovn\u00edky. Pat\u0159\u00ed sem i vztahy milostn\u00e9.\u00a0P\u0159i sv\u00e9m celo\u017eivotn\u00edm putov\u00e1n\u00ed sborovnami r\u016fzn\u00fdch \u0161kol jsem byl sv\u011bdkem n\u011bkolika takov\u00fdch &#8222;p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu&#8220;, n\u011bkter\u00fdch i s happy endem. Ano, mezi kolegy jsem m\u011bl n\u011bkolik man\u017eelsk\u00fdch dvojic, kter\u00e9 se poznaly\u00a0ve \u0161koln\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00ed. Je to p\u0159irozen\u00e9 a lidsk\u00e9, snad jenom slo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed velkou nerovnov\u00e1hou mezi nab\u00eddkou mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een v na\u0161em \u0161kolstv\u00ed.\u00a0A tak objev\u00ed-li se na \u0161kole mlad\u0161\u00ed a nezadan\u00fd mu\u017e, mus\u00ed po\u010d\u00edtat s t\u00edm, \u017ee se stane st\u0159edem z\u00e1jmu a soust\u0159ed\u011bn\u00e9ho tlaku stejn\u011b nezadan\u00fdch \u010dlenek u\u010ditelsk\u00e9ho sboru. Mn\u011b tato zku\u0161enost minula, proto\u017ee jsem byl \u017eenat\u00fd vlastn\u011b od za\u010d\u00e1tk\u016f sv\u00e9 u\u010ditelsk\u00e9 kari\u00e9ry.\u00a0Je pochopiteln\u00e9, \u017ee to\u00a0nebyl d\u016fvod k tomu, aby se n\u011bkdy n\u011bkter\u00e1 z kolegy\u0148 o nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed bli\u017e\u0161\u00edho vztahu alespo\u0148 nepokusila. Zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b tehdy, kdy\u017e jsem postoupil do funkce \u0159editele \u0161koly.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0A to je rovina, kter\u00e9 se chci p\u0159ednostn\u011b v\u011bnovat. Nejen\u00a0z rad zku\u0161en\u011bj\u0161\u00edch,\u00a0 ale s\u00e1m jsem od za\u010d\u00e1tku napl\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00e9 funkce instinktivn\u011b c\u00edtil, \u017ee jak\u00fdkoliv vztah tohoto typu mezi \u0159editelem (\u0159editelkou) a \u010dlenem\u00a0u\u010ditelsk\u00e9ho sboru, je stav pro jeho postaven\u00ed velmi riskantn\u00ed a pro atmosf\u00e9ru mezi pracovn\u00edky \u0161koly ne\u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed.\u00a0I tehdy, kdy\u017e jde o \u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9 man\u017eele, je pom\u011br nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd-pod\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd\u00a0pro danou \u0161kolu problematickou z\u00e1pletkou. Vlastn\u011b\u00a0takov\u00fd stav\u00a0nem\u00e1 dobrou alternativu.\u00a0I kdy\u017e tomu tak nen\u00ed, ostatn\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9 maj\u00ed neust\u00e1le pocit, \u017ee nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd &#8222;nadr\u017euje&#8220; sv\u00e9 man\u017eelce (milence), na co\u017e jim dnes a denn\u011b\u00a0d\u00e1v\u00e1 \u017eivot \u0161koly\u00a0st\u00e1le nov\u00e9 a nov\u00e9 d\u016fkazy. Pokud se naopak \u0159editel sna\u017e\u00ed bl\u00edzkou osobu\u00a0viditeln\u011b ignorovat a\u00a0d\u00e1v\u00e1 najevo, \u017ee je nestrann\u00fd, lidsky\u00a0tuto osobu bl\u00edzkou\u00a0po\u0161kozuje a ubli\u017euje ji, proto\u017ee jejich milostn\u00fd (man\u017eelsk\u00fd) vztah by nem\u011bl\u00a0b\u00fdt ovliv\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00a0profesn\u00edmi vztahy a pot\u0159ebami pracovi\u0161t\u011b, na kter\u00e9m oba p\u016fsob\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 \u0158e\u0161en\u00ed je jedin\u00e9. Pokud je to mo\u017en\u00e9, m\u011bl by jeden z dvojice p\u0159ej\u00edt co nejd\u0159\u00edve po nastolen\u00ed tohoto slu\u017eebn\u00edho vztahu na jin\u00e9 pracovi\u0161t\u011b a t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem r\u00e1zn\u011b\u00a0pop\u0159\u00edt v\u0161echna podez\u0159en\u00ed. A to plat\u00ed i v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee jde o man\u017eele. Kdysi platilo pravidlo, \u017ee man\u017eel\u00e9 mohou\u00a0ve \u0161kolstv\u00ed p\u016fsobit na jednom\u00a0pracovi\u0161ti, ale jen do t\u00e9 doby, ne\u017e je jeden z nich stane nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00fdm druh\u00e9ho.\u00a0Pak byla povinnost, aby pod\u0159\u00edzen\u00fd ze \u0161koly ode\u0161el na jin\u00e9 pracovi\u0161t\u011b. V\u00fdjimky samoz\u0159ejm\u011b existovaly, ale musely b\u00fdt\u00a0dolo\u017eeny nap\u0159. nemo\u017enost\u00ed sehnat uplatn\u011bn\u00ed v okruhu p\u016fvodn\u00edho p\u016fsobi\u0161t\u011b. Mysl\u00edm si, \u017ee to bylo na\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 a u\u017eite\u010dn\u00e9.\u00a0Pro vztahy mileneck\u00e9 takov\u00fd v\u00fdnos sice neexistoval, ale takto vznikl\u00fd vztah m\u00e1 stejn\u00e9, ne-li\u00a0 hor\u0161\u00ed dopady na atmosf\u00e9ru v u\u010ditelsk\u00e9m sboru \u0161koly.\u00a0 A to nejen pro danou dvojici, ale hlavn\u011b pro v\u0161echny ostatn\u00ed pracovn\u00edky, pro zdravou a d\u016fv\u011bryhodnou atmosf\u00e9ru na pracovi\u0161ti.\u00a0Ot\u00e1zky vztah\u016f mezi pracovn\u00edky jsou dnes posunuty do roviny mor\u00e1lky. A ta dnes stavem na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dnosti dost\u00e1v\u00e1 \u010detn\u00e9 trhliny. Proto\u017ee se pohybujeme v oblasti, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1\u00a0na\u0161e sv\u011b\u0159ence vychovat, m\u011bly by i tyto ot\u00e1zky b\u00fdt posuzov\u00e1ny podle n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch norem. Jinak se postupn\u011b st\u00e1v\u00e1me pro sv\u00e9 studenty i \u017e\u00e1ky nev\u011brohodn\u00fdmi. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0cm 0cm 10pt;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vztah\u016fm se nevyh\u00fdb\u00e1 ani \u0161koln\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed. M\u00e1m na mysli zcela konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed formu vtah\u016f &#8211; vztahy milostn\u00e9. Ne, nebudu tady rozeb\u00edrat rom\u00e1nky mezi studenty, ani mezi studentkami a profesory. Chci se v\u011bnovat vztah\u016fm ve sborovn\u00e1ch.\u00a0Speci\u00e1ln\u011b vztah\u016fm mezi sborovnou a \u0159editelnou. To v\u0161e m\u00e1 velk\u00fd vliv na atmosf\u00e9ru \u0161koly a nav\u00edc ovliv\u0148uje\u00a0pov\u011bst \u0161koly na ve\u0159ejnosti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[297,293],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uternicek","category-zivotni"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=201"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=201"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=201"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=201"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}