{"id":113,"date":"2009-01-27T16:54:38","date_gmt":"2009-01-27T16:54:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/?p=113"},"modified":"2009-03-22T15:14:13","modified_gmt":"2009-03-22T15:14:13","slug":"mladi-uvolnete-misto-starsim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/prispevky\/mladi-uvolnete-misto-starsim.html","title":{"rendered":"MLAD\u00cd, UVOLN\u011aTE M\u00cdSTO STAR\u0160\u00cdM &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>&#8230; z\u00e1sada v\u0161t\u011bpovan\u00e1 oded\u00e1vna mlad\u00e9 generaci, je pro tu sou\u010dasnou p\u0159ekonan\u00fdm zvykem. Tvrd\u00ed to alespo\u0148 jedna z na\u0161ich televiz\u00ed, kter\u00e1 nato\u010dila anketu se star\u0161\u00edmi spoluob\u010dany a p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00e9 reakce mlad\u00fdch na ot\u00e1zku, zda tuto z\u00e1sadu je\u0161t\u011b znaj\u00ed a ct\u00ed. Cel\u00fd p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek\u00a0 byl or\u00e1mov\u00e1n recesn\u00edmi kousky, kter\u00e9 ve ve\u0159ejn\u00fdch dopravn\u00edch prost\u0159edc\u00edch mlad\u00ed inscenuj\u00ed, nat\u00e1\u010dej\u00ed na sv\u00e9 mobily a umis\u0165uj\u00ed na internet k pobaven\u00ed ostatn\u00edch. Je stav skute\u010dn\u011b tak zoufal\u00fd, jak ho popisuje zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e1 report\u00e1\u017e?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>\t<!--more-->Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1m si, jak se mn\u011b dotklo, kdy\u017e mn\u011b asi p\u0159ed 20 roky poprv\u00e9 nab\u00eddla m\u00edsto k sezen\u00ed v tramvaji p\u011bkn\u00e1 d\u00edvenka. N\u011bjak jsem vnit\u0159n\u011b neunesl, \u017ee ona ve mn\u011b vid\u00ed star\u00e9ho a nemocn\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd si zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u00a0 soucitu a pozornosti, kter\u00fd vyj\u00e1d\u0159ila svoj\u00ed nab\u00eddkou. Tenkr\u00e1t jsem\u00a0ji s d\u00edky odm\u00edtl, ani\u017e bych si uv\u011bdomil, \u017ee jsem nejednal spr\u00e1vn\u011b.\u00a0Ona mo\u017en\u00e1 p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b p\u0159i podobn\u00e9 situaci u n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho, stejn\u011b posti\u017een\u00e9ho \u010di star\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, ji\u017e svoji nab\u00eddku rad\u011bji nezopakuje. Popisuji jednu z mo\u017enost\u00ed, pro\u010d se dne\u0161n\u00ed mlad\u00ed chovaj\u00ed tak jak se chovaj\u00ed a ke kter\u00e9 jsem p\u0159isp\u011bl nevhodnou reakc\u00ed s\u00e1m.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>T\u00edm\u00a0ale neomlouv\u00e1m v\u0161echny dal\u0161\u00ed situace, kter\u00e9 se dnes a denn\u011b v dopravn\u00edch prost\u0159edc\u00edch d\u011bj\u00ed a bud\u00ed pohor\u0161n\u00ed a n\u011bkdy \u00fa\u017eas\u00a0v\u011bkov\u011b star\u0161\u00edch. Jak bylo v po\u0159adu\u00a0spr\u00e1vn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno, mlad\u00ed se chovaj\u00ed tak, jak jim to dovol\u00ed okol\u00ed.\u00a0 Mnoho n\u00e1vod\u016f k takov\u00e9mu vid\u00ed denn\u011b v televizi, kde se jim doslova nab\u00edzej\u00ed ve filmech, seri\u00e1lech, ale i zpravodajstv\u00edch. Vid\u00ed tam, jak\u00a0davy nevychovan\u00fdch fanou\u0161k\u016f mus\u00ed na sportovn\u00ed utk\u00e1n\u00ed doprov\u00e1zet policie a dohl\u00ed\u017eet na to, aby se bez v\u011bt\u0161\u00edch konflikt\u016f dostali na stadion. Po skon\u010den\u00ed je pak policie doprov\u00e1z\u00ed zp\u011bt na n\u00e1dra\u017e\u00ed. Tak daleko nechala spole\u010dnost rozvinout chu\u0165 t\u011bchto taky fanou\u0161ku dosytosti se vy\u0159\u00e1dit,\u00a0p\u0159edv\u00e1d\u011bt se ve rva\u010dk\u00e1ch a vulg\u00e1rnostech. Nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee takov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edklad je l\u00e1kav\u00fd i pro ty ostatn\u00ed, m\u00e9n\u011b v\u00fdbojn\u00e9. Pak sta\u010d\u00ed\u00a0 bojovn\u00edk\u016fm p\u0159idat do krve trochu alkoholu, vyhecovat sv\u00e9 hlasit\u00e9 slovn\u00ed projevy, pro\u0161pikovan\u00e9 siln\u00fdmi slovy a je zad\u011bl\u00e1no na p\u011bkn\u00fd mal\u00e9r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0 V report\u00e1\u017ei se redaktor sna\u017e\u00ed dop\u00e1trat, kdo za to m\u016f\u017ee. Do\u0161lo samoz\u0159ejm\u011b i na \u0161kolu. Je pravda, \u017ee cestovat dnes se \u0161koln\u00ed ml\u00e1de\u017e\u00ed ve\u0159ejn\u00fdm dopravn\u00edm prost\u0159edkem je velk\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek. Pro cestuj\u00edc\u00ed, ale tak\u00e9 pro zodpov\u011bdn\u00e9ho u\u010ditele. On zodpov\u00edd\u00e1 za\u00a0zdrav\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed a\u00a0nikdy\u00a0 dop\u0159edu\u00a0 dost dob\u0159e nev\u00ed, zda je p\u0159iveze v po\u0159\u00e1dku a jakou ostudu mu cestou p\u0159ed ve\u0159ejnost\u00ed\u00a0ud\u011blaj\u00ed. Na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161ina klidumilovn\u00fdch cestuj\u00edc\u00edch se p\u0159esune do jin\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti vagonu, nebo po\u010dk\u00e1 na dal\u0161\u00ed autobus, aby byla u\u0161et\u0159ena nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9ho z\u00e1\u017eitku. Zku\u0161enost u\u010ditele mi \u0159\u00edk\u00e1,\u00a0\u017ee i dne\u0161n\u00ed \u017e\u00e1ci a studenti jsou schopni\u00a0 chovat se\u00a0p\u0159i takov\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti slu\u0161n\u011b. Ale mus\u00ed se jim dop\u0159edu jasn\u011b \u0159\u00edci, co si mohou dovolit a co se od nich o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1.\u00a0A pohrozit t\u00edm, \u017ee v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nedodr\u017een\u00ed domluven\u00fdch pravidel, je tohle jejich posledn\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00fd v\u00fdlet. Po takov\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edprav\u011b\u00a0pochop\u00ed a v\u011bt\u0161ina se sna\u017e\u00ed\u00a0dodr\u017eet dohodnut\u00e9 normy. A ty nech\u00e1pav\u00e9 dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed sami usm\u011brnit.\u00a0A v\u00fdlet prob\u011bhne podle u\u010ditelova o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a\u00a0bez ostudy.<\/p>\n<p>A co rodina? Tu p\u0159ece nem\u016f\u017eeme ze hry vynechat. \u00a0Jak ta pom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u0159i veden\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed k po\u0159\u00e1dku a k\u00e1zni na ve\u0159ejnosti? Zp\u016fsoby v\u00fdchovy dne\u0161n\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f jsou hodn\u011b vzd\u00e1leny metod\u00e1m, kter\u00e9 pou\u017e\u00edvali na\u0161i rodi\u010de. A jestli\u017ee na\u0161e d\u011bti jsou takov\u00e9 jak\u00e9 jsou, plat\u00ed o nich, \u017ee jsou v\u011brn\u00fdm obrazem sv\u00fdch vychovatel\u016f. Chovaj\u00ed se tak, jak jsou v rodin\u011b vedeny. Tam v\u011bt\u0161ina probl\u00e9m\u016f, kter\u00e9 s mlad\u00fdmi lidmi jsou za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed a tak\u00e9 kon\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e1 se na sou\u010dasn\u00e9m stavu n\u011bco zm\u011bnit? Dob\u0159e to vyj\u00e1d\u0159ila jedna z osloven\u00fdch pan\u00ed v televizn\u00ed anket\u011b, kdy\u017e uvedla, \u017ee si mlad\u00fdm o uvoln\u011bn\u00ed m\u00edsta v dopravn\u00edm prost\u0159edku prost\u011b a jednodu\u0161e \u0159ekne. A je\u0161t\u011b se j\u00ed nestalo, aby jej\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dost byla odm\u00edtnuta. Nev\u011bdomky tak nab\u00eddla recept.\u00a0S mal\u00fdmi je t\u0159eba komunikovat, otev\u0159en\u011b zas\u00e1hnout a vyj\u00e1d\u0159it nespokojenost a nesouhlas v\u0161ude tam, kde jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ekra\u010duje v\u017eitou normu. V\u00fdchova mlad\u00fdch\u00a0je p\u0159ece\u00a0v\u011bc\u00ed n\u00e1s v\u0161ech. Nejen \u0161koly, rodiny, ale doslova ka\u017ed\u00e9ho, kdo se s nimi kdekoliv setk\u00e1v\u00e1. Chce to pravda n\u011bkdy trochu odvahy. Leccos p\u0159i tom \u010dlov\u011bk od nich vyslechne, ale nakonec se uk\u00e1\u017ee, \u017ee domluva je mo\u017en\u00e1.\u00a0Hranice spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed m\u00e1me v ruk\u00e1ch ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230; z\u00e1sada v\u0161t\u011bpovan\u00e1 oded\u00e1vna mlad\u00e9 generaci, je pro tu sou\u010dasnou p\u0159ekonan\u00fdm zvykem. Tvrd\u00ed to alespo\u0148 jedna z na\u0161ich televiz\u00ed, kter\u00e1 nato\u010dila anketu se star\u0161\u00edmi spoluob\u010dany a p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161n\u00e9 reakce mlad\u00fdch na ot\u00e1zku, zda tuto z\u00e1sadu je\u0161t\u011b znaj\u00ed a ct\u00ed. Cel\u00fd p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek\u00a0 byl or\u00e1mov\u00e1n recesn\u00edmi kousky, kter\u00e9 ve ve\u0159ejn\u00fdch dopravn\u00edch prost\u0159edc\u00edch mlad\u00ed inscenuj\u00ed, nat\u00e1\u010dej\u00ed na sv\u00e9 mobily [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[297,293],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uternicek","category-zivotni"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/33"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogy.rvp.cz\/dedvseved\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}